Motherhood is a journey filled with highs and lows, joys and challenges, laughter and tears. Amidst the chaos and demands of parenting, there are moments when we find ourselves snapping, yelling, and feeling overwhelmed.
It’s during these times that we can take solace in the comforting words of the Bible:
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:22-23
These words offer a soothing balm to the hearts of mothers, reminding us that no matter how tough the day has been, a fresh start is waiting with the dawn of each new day.
The Struggles We Face
Being a mother is a beautiful yet daunting responsibility. Never-ending messes to the emotional rollercoasters. Let’s be real: being a mom is like juggling a circus, a bakery, and a zoo all at once. It’s not all picture-perfect. There are days when our patience wears thin, and we raise our voices in frustration, it is easy to feel like we’re failing. We feel pressured to meet unrealistic standards.
We’re only human, after all. We’ve all had those moments when we’ve locked ourselves in the bathroom for a minute of peace or hidden in the laundry room just to take a breath. The isolation we sometimes feel in our struggles can lead us to compare ourselves to seemingly perfect moms, leaving us questioning our abilities.
The Promise of New Mercies
In those quiet moments when the day winds down and the little ones are finally asleep, it’s natural for us to reflect on the challenges and perhaps even feel a tinge of regret. Yet, let’s take solace in the wisdom of the verse that assures us that every dawn brings a new opportunity for improvement. Tomorrow offers us a chance to begin anew, to strive for a better version of ourselves as mothers. With each sunrise, we’re granted a fresh chance to start anew. This promise allows us to release the weight of our mistakes and embrace the opportunity for growth and improvement.
Embracing Imperfection
Each morning is a new chance to mend, to hug a little tighter, and to apologize for the previous day’s slip-ups. Our kids, in their simple wisdom, forgive and forget faster than we can imagine. And if they can offer grace, maybe it’s time we do the same for ourselves and our kids. We’re not aiming for perfection, just progress. We often set unattainable standards for ourselves as mothers. Instead of striving for an unattainable ideal, we can find strength in acknowledging our imperfections. Our children love us not for our flawlessness, but for the love and care we provide. We are not perfect, but we are “good enough”, understanding this encourages us to focus on progress rather than perfection.
Whispers of Encouragement
When you’re questioning your worth, remember Psalm 30:5: “For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime.” Our frustration might linger, but so does His love. In Isaiah 40:31, we’re reminded that those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. Maybe the strength we need isn’t to be the perfect mom, but the strength to embrace our imperfections and for the strength to still be willing to improve each day.
Dear mom, you’re not alone in this journey. The sleepless nights, the messes, the doubts—they’re all part of the tapestry of motherhood. So, as you start each day with bleary eyes and a heart full of love, remember that “His mercies are new every morning.” It’s a promise that in your tiredness, and your impatience, there’s always a chance to begin again. So go ahead, take a deep breath, and step into this new day with hope, knowing that you’re doing the best you can—one sunrise at a time.